Dining Out and our growing girl

We like dining out in our front lawn whenever we can. It can be a bit difficult right now in the wet season though. We've had one or two conversations with neighbhours we haven't met before doing this.

Our little girl is growing! She is quite an attraction when we go out. About 10 different people must have stopped and looked at her in her pram today at the restaurant at lunch. The majority of people guess that she is a boy (incorrectly). At lunch, we heard one waitress scold another waitress, "Of course it's a boy!". Obviously, the pink dress somehow doesn't give it away here in Thailand!

Preaching Christ in a Postmodern World

These series of Lectures by Tim Keller and Edmund Clowney on Preaching Christ in a Postmodern World look like gold. I'm in the process of downloading them. It's free on ituneU.

I went to itunes, searched for Reformed Theological Seminary, then the series on Preaching Christ in a Postmodern world. Normally you have to pay for Tim Keller sermons and this is a free download. You need itunes to download but the files are MP3 so you can play it on any media player.

The notes to these lectures can be downloaded from here.

Thanks to Andrew Katay from Australia. Check out his blog which is about building church.
Andrew's explanation of how to get the lectures may be easier, I'm not sure . "They’re on iTUnesU, go to the Universities tab, and then reformed theological seminary, and the RTS Seminars and lecture series and then it’s Preaching Christ in a Postmodern world – Clowney does Expounding Christ, Keller does Applying Christ"

Churches in Lampang

Kelang Phantakit Church, Lampang

Motana Church, Lampang

In the last month we have started visiting churches around Lampang, partly to see what the churches were like and partly to hear Thai Christian Language which will be important for our Thai language exams.  So far, the 3 churches we've been to have been welcoming and it is nice to be able to understand much more than we did a year ago.  Also we are thankful we haven't had any major incidents with the behaviour of our children (although my language teacher who goes to one of the churches, informed me that my son putting stickers on my face would be a complete no no for a Thai child - you should never touch a Thai person's head).  For me it is has been interesting to see the Pastors who I'd met playing soccer last year at their various churches.  

Here is the service outline of Kelang Phantakit Church which we went to today.

Prelude

Call to Worship Ps. 117:1-2

Hymn TH#11

Prayer of Praise & Confession

The Lord's Prayer

Responsive Reading Mal 1:6-14

Pastoral Prayer

Music

Choral Response

Scripture Lesson Mal 3:6-12

Hymn TH #140

SERMON

Offering - Offertory Prayer

Hymn TH #239

Benediction

Closing Response

The service outline looks pretty familiar doesn't it.  It would be typical of the other two churches we visited also (excluding the Choral response).  Of the sermon I had a chance tolisten to and understand, the preacher seem to be advocating that everyone should be tithing 10% from a passage in Joshua.  

What I'm Reading Now: Planting Churches Cross-Culturally

This book is almost (or is) a classic when it comes to church planting. I've heard of it, probably was taught a lot of it at college or at church planting conferences but it is the first time I'm actually reading it. It has been very helpful and challenging, the bits I've read so far.

Here's a thought provoking section on p.116.

" .... four factors should be give preliminary consideration before actually establishing contacts in the target area:

1. Newcomers to a society may find it easier to related to people of difference classes (i.e people of the classes higher or lower than the class to which they belonged in their home culture) than will a person who is native to that society. (Rich: I think the implication is that missionaries as newcomers to a society can cross the class divide more easily than locals)
2. Results of undifferentiated initial contacts can mean that new churches become identified with marginals and outcasts who attach themselves to the missionary-evangelist for purposes of self-aggrandizement. These people may have little power to persuade their fellow citizens to accept the gospel. What needs to be thought through (but rarely is) is the implications of the rather widespread non-strategy of making initial contacts with those who are most easily approached.
3. It can be of great value if a core of solid citizens can be won to Christ and to the church... If the first converts are from the lowest class, the conversion of middle and upper class people will be made more difficult.
4. The experience of many Pentecostal and some Baptists groups should cause us to give more consideration to reaching the lower-middle and upper lower classes where “education and work go hand in hand”. Biblical precedent and the success of these groups indicate that many denominations and missions may be missing an opportunity for great growth among a responsive people who obviously make good timber for building churches."

A word of warning comes from my friend and fellow missionary about how modern missionary is not hemmed in by Scripture (Learning from John Nevius). The comments sections has our additional discussion.

Hesslegrave, David J. 2000. (2nd Ed). Planting Churches Cross-Culturally. North America and Beyond. Grand Rapids: Baker Academic.

Is Using English Teaching as Outreach a Deception?

Steve and Sophie - Short-termers teaching one of my English Classes

There are differing views amongst missionaries of using English Teaching as outreach.

1. Some believe that the practice is a bit of a deception because the goals of the missionary and the goals of the students are usually very different. The goal of the missionary is to be able to tell the students about Jesus. The goal of the student to increase their job prospects. So they don’t teach English out of principle.

2. The other point of view is that English teaching meet a felt need in the community, something which we as native English speakers can do easily and more proficiently than the local people. In most cases the students know we are missionaries and they are happy to put up with some teaching using Biblical material to get native speaker teaching. One extreme would be just using entirely Biblical material to teach English. At the other extreme of this camp would be only using a portion of the time to teach about the Bible and the rest of the time straight English teaching.

3. Or a middle road might be that the missionary teachers English, but would not teach anything Biblical at all. Through English teaching, the hope is that relationships will be build and there will be opportunities to share the gospel outside of class times.

An additional factor is whether you charge for the English teaching or not. In charging a fee, you are more obligated to teach with the goal of the student in mind.

So what are we doing in Lampang? We charge 200 baht (AU$ 8) a month for 2 hours aper week of English class. In our advertising we don’t mentioned anything about there being any “Christian” content.

I guess I started of in camp 3. I didn’t teach any Biblical material at all. But after about 8 months of this, I got a little fed up and thought what’s the point. I’m teaching English but no one is getting further in my aim of them eventually getting to know Jesus. So in the last couple of months, in the last 30 minutes of my 2 hour English Class, I’ve started telling Chronological Bible Stories in English and explaining in Thai when needed. I’ve felt much better about this and don’t feel so much that I’m wasting my time. I didn’t come here just to teach English.

However, my wife recently had a conversation with a missionary who is in camp 1 and I’m thinking through again how we do English teaching and whether we are being deceptive in anyway in how we promote our English class.

As an aside, a student shared with me at the end of class today that he had downloaded the Bible into his iphone but was having difficulty understanding it. So I gave him a picture Bible we have in Thai and organised to meet him on Thursday nights to answer any questions which he may have and help him understand more about the Bible.

Opinions?

Why I wouldn't supplement a local pastor's salary

One of the most painful issues for our team leader is the issue of gradually withdrawing financial support from a significant number of Thai churches that our mission is still financially supporting. In most cases these churches have been started by one of missionaries in the past, and the church started receiving financial support from the mission to help it along. The old policy I think was that within 5 years the financial support would gradually stop and by that time the church would be self supporting. In reality, almost always the financial support was still needed after 5 years. When you try to reduce the support, the church makes it clear that they feel like you are abandoning them. The current mission policy is not to provide any regular financial support to a church or a pastor. However, there are many legacy situations still being resolved.

In my opinion it would have been better to have never provided financial support in the first place. In almost all cases it is unhelpful and cripples the church with a dependency on foreign money. I recently heard that perhaps as many as 90% of 4,000 Thai pastors who attended a recent Evangelism Conference in Bangkok are supported in significant way by foreign funds.

Although it is so hard to cut financial support to these financially needy churches in the long run it is that best thing for that church. If it can't survive without foreign funds then maybe it is best that it doesn't. It sounds harsh but I think it is the truth. Then the congregation will face the problem for themselves and work out a viable solution. Perhaps it will mean that the Pastor needs to find a part time job to supplement his income. Perhaps the congregation will realise that if they don't give more then they won't have a Pastor. For foreign missions to continue to fund these churches isn't viable or the best use of fund. Also as long as those funds are there the church will know that there is always a fall back option. Ask the mission.

When you give money to one church to buy land or to build a church, the other churches see this and come asking for money too. When you don't give it to them, they think you are showing favoritism. You gave it to them but why not us?

At college we saw a case study of a church in Africa which had depended on foreign support for decades. When the support was cut the church in time actually developed and icnreased their giving to the point that they were giving almost $500,000 to overseas mission. They learnt they could do without foreign support and took it upon themselves to find the funds to self support the ministry of the church.

If a new church plant cannot afford a Pastor, I say it should not have a Pastor. Work out some other way to lead the church. The worst thing you can do is to prop it up with foreign money making it anemic and dependant. The church must be self support from the start or not at all.

I can see first hand the heartache in our househelp's eyes and face when the Korean missionaries cut her husband's salary last month. They are just barely struggling to meet the bills. The missionaries never should have put him in the situation first place and it has put so much tension in the relationship between them.

Sad News

A couple of days ago a missionary in our organisation took his life in a nearby city leaving behind his wife and two children. They were fellow Australians and we got to know them a little bit when we were on holidays last year at our organisation's guesthouse. It has come as a real shock to us. Please pray for this family and those who are greiving this loss. Please continue to pray for all those in ministry as it is not an easy life.

International Evening: Nitendo Wii Fun

Guitar Hero on Nitendo Wii

Wii Sport - Tennis

I had an idea a some months back of getting a Nintendo Wii for our International Evening. Numbers had been low for a while and I felt that we needed something more to attract students and young adults. However, when I went to Chiang Mai the price of a Nintendo was almost double the price back in Australia so I gave up on the idea. We happened to be in Bangkok to extend our visas a couple of weeks ago and I happened to pass by a shop selling Nintendo Wiis. Out of curiosity I asked about the price and was stunted to find out that it was half the price I'd seen in Chiang Mai. I ummed and aahhed a lot over when I should purchase it as it was still not a cheap purchase by any means. However, I went for it.

Anyway, the Nintendo Wii has been great fun and I invited a couple of people telling about what great fun it was and they turned up on Friday. In fact, we had to give them a hint that it was getting late at around 10:30pm (the evening is meant to finish at 9pm) and I had to teach English the next morning.

It is hard knowing sometimes what you should spend money on and what you should not. I guess the tendency has always to be as frugal as possible as missionaries. But has cost more than a hundred thousand dollars in preparing for and being in Thailand for 2 years so you've really got to keep things in perspective.

The next thing we are thinking of spending money on is a large vinyl banner for in front of the Lighthouse house. It will cost around 2500 baht (AU$100). Some may say that is too much and just make do without or go for a cheap cloth one, but if it is going to attract more people to the Lighthouse and get us to our goals quicker, then in the end it is going to save a lot more in the long run because we won't need to be here as long.